Can you save your marriage from the pain and anguish associated with divorce? Just because your parents or someone close to you has divorced it doesn’t mean you will too one day. I know divorce seems like the norm these days but it isn’t. Divorce should not and must not be accepted as just part of life. Of course it’s happening all around us and that’s why it sometimes seems inevitable. However, if you want to be abnormal and save your marriage, that’s an option for you as well.
I know couples who have reconciled their marriages just days away from signing the final divorce papers. There are countless spouses who had their bags pack and one foot out the door before giving their marriage one last chance and finding success.
All it takes is a good day to get your marriage moving in the right direction. Don’t assume that it’s too late for your marriage.
What better day than today is there to begin restoring your marriage? Your goal is pretty simple. Make the next 2 hours better than the last 2. Then make tomorrow better than today. How do you accomplish this? Just say one less negative thing about your spouse or marriage. How about have one less argument than you had 2 hours ago or yesterday. All you need to do is have a better experience than you had in the recent past. Positive behavior is contagious. Set your mind on the end game of restoring your marriage and you will be surprised at how your actions will line up with your mind. It’s hard to get a divorce when your marriage is heading in the right direction.
You can save your marriage from divorce. Just begin making it better a little at a time. Before you know it you will have turned your marriage into a successful one again.