Marriage help for men is best given and received when a husband has experienced some difficulties in his marriage. It’s not to say that all husband’s are the same or all marriage help is received by men the same. However, a lot of men have a hard time accepting marriage help.
Why is it so difficult for men to accept help with resolving marriage problems?
Could it be that some men have too much pride and have a hard time admitting that they don’t know what to do?
Perhaps it’s that some men believe that they know more than anyone else and feel as though if they can’t fix the marriage no one can?
What I have found is that men will accept marriage help but often only when they have totally exhausted all options and their wife has given an ultimatum. Unfortunately, there are also many guys who react negatively to the ultimatum and continue to push the marriage boundaries causing a bigger rift.
If you want to keep your marriage together and not just hang on by a thread, please understand this one thing;
Marriage help for men is not for the weak and or weak minded but for strong men who are comfortable with themselves and smart enough to choose marital bliss over ego and pride.
The following marriage help for men tips should help keep you married.
Marriage Help For Men Tip #1 – Be Her Helpmate
Contrary to popular belief, your wife didn’t marry you to give 100% without getting back 100% from you. If you want to keep your marriage together, make sure that you are meeting your wife’s needs (whatever they are).
Don’t be afraid to help with cooking, cleaning, caring for the kids, paying the bills and making her feel loved and appreciated. All of these attributes are what she expects and needs from you. Don’t fall behind the old school philosophy of “men do this” and “women do that”. If you eat, mess up the house, helped conceive the kids or benefit from the bills being paid, then why shouldn’t you help in these areas?
If you think you are giving 100% then why not ask your wife how you can help her more?
Marriage Help For Men Tip #2 – Make Time For Your Wife
You might be a great provider for your family and buy your wife the finer things of life. I’m sure that your wife appreciates your hard work habits and commitment to care for your family. You possibly could be one of the best fathers to ever walk the face of the earth and I’m sure your kids will cherish their relationship with you all the days of their life. As far as being a son or son in-law your loyalty to your parents without question might be admired by many.
However, the question is how much of your time do you devote to your wife?
Is your wife getting the left over time or the quality time from you? Is she number 1 or does she come after work, the kids and your leisure time activities?
I guarantee you ( as much as I can) that if you simply make plans to spend time with your wife she will begin to love and appreciate you in ways that you haven’t seen recently. Not only will she be re-energized and begin to change her ways and attitudes, she will be happier.
A husband with a happy wife is a man at peace. Don’t you want love and peace in your marriage and home?
Marriage Help For Men Final Tip – Don’t Be To Proud To Get Help
As I mentioned a couple of times already, don’t let your pride get in the way of restoring your marriage or saving your marriage. No one has all of the answers but together we can come up with some ideas, strategies and best practices to get this marriage thing to be the best that it can be.
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