I wish I could give you the exact answer you need to quickly turn your broken marriage around but I don’t think you need a quick turnaround. What you need is healthy marriage where you and your spouse are happy and both reaping the benefits of a solid relationship. One thing that I can assure you is that is that the following should help with fixing a broken marriage.
I’m biased but I believe that the following advice is timeless and priceless and can help in marriage restoration.
Plan To Have A Better Marriage – Fixing a broken marriage takes focus and commitment. There is no reason why you should not be successful if you pro-actively take steps to build a better relationship. You may have tried everything that you could think of to fix your broken marriage but that could be one of your biggest problems with fixing your marriage. Marriage help is only beneficial if it’s applied correctly and in the right dosage. To much to soon can give you the opposite results.
I would suggest that you try to make small improvements and work towards tackling the bigger, more complicated issues. For example, let’s say that you have grown cold towards each other and just seem to co-exist. You can’t put your finger on why but you just seem to be drifting. This most likely has also lead to issues in the bedroom. So, what do you do to turn this aspect of your marriage around?
You work on becoming likeable again to help with fixing a broken marriage. That’s one of the most important but overlooked steps in repairing your marriage. If you don’t like your spouse any longer or if your spouse can’t stand you how in the world can you fix a broken marriage? What will give your marriage transformation a chance to take hold is if you can just get to the point where you like each other again. You will see like turn into affection and into love again, before you know it.
Pick Your Battles Wisely – It is a struggle to resist confronting your spouse on a range of issues when you are frustrated and fear that your marriage is failing. In your mind you are fighting to save your marriage. However, your constant fighting might be taken as a sign that you want out of the marriage. Please don’t look at every issue or failure by your spouse as an opportunity to win an argument or battle. It is not worth it and you are only hurting yourself and your marriage. If you really want to fix your broken marriage, only confront your spouse on important matters.
Choose Your Advisors Carefully – Needless to say that every suggestion (even the ones that I’m making should be weighed against your common sense). I think my suggestions are pretty helpful but you have to be the judge of that. Please remember that not everyone gives sound marriage advice. Also, don’t dismiss advice from someone who has already given up on their marriage and perhaps divorced. There is a lot to be learned from others mistakes. The key is to limit the amount of people or resources that you are getting advice from. You will find conflicting advice that could cause you to be confused.
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