Your life has been changed forever and it’s still up in the air whether you will forgive your adulterous husband right? You have so many questions and he has so few answers I’m sure. There are three things you want to think about when dealing with an adulterous husband and they are;
Will your husband commit adultery again?
This is one of those questions that no one, including you cheating husband can answer with certainty. I’m sure in the past he also professed that he could or would never cheat on you, but he failed at keeping his word.
Clearly your husband will say the right thing, and that is, he would never break his word and your trust again. If you believe him that’s great, because it means that you have already started to trust him again. If you don’t trust him yet then you should be honest with him and tell your adulterous husband that his actions will speak louder than his promises.
Can you ever love your cheating husband again?
Dealing with a cheating husband takes great strength and humility and heart. There is not much worse that a spouse can do to you so trying to love him again is a challenge. I can only tell you that you can and will love him again, if you allow your healing and his deliverance to take place.
There are steps you can take to give yourself the best chance of loving him again with all of your heart and soul.
How long will it take to get over your husband’s affair?
If I could tell you how long it would take I would let you know in a heart beat. I know some spouses who recovered from their husband’s infidelity in a matter of weeks and some have taken years while others have never gotten over it.
What matters just as much as when it will be over is how you are going to get through the adulterous behavior? If it’s handled the right way, even if it takes awhile to work out the issues, it will be well worth it.
What’s next in dealing with an adulterous husband?
Well, the most important step in this whole recovery process is taking care of your needs and then putting your relationship back on the right track. If you need additional help in recovering from your husband’s adulterous affair, please visit here now! How To Survive An Affair